Dating a younger coworker
You probably don’t have the abs you used to back in the day, so get acquainted with flowy tops.
The good news is your girls probably grew with age and maybe a little weight gain elsewhere. Play the music you like when he comes over, suggest movies from your youth on movie night, and for goodness sake do not keep up with the Kardashians.
Your body won’t bounce back the same; and if he wanted a party girl, he’d be with one, instead of you. The greatest thing about dating someone younger is that he has so many places to show you that you’d never know about otherwise, and visa versa. You’ve had a longer life and inevitably accomplished more than your cub.
It’s natural to reference your own history, experiences, victories etc.
But he can smell it the second you feel insecure about your age, and being catty to younger women is the first symptom. And to a cub, that type of body isn’t a turn off—it’s different and exciting.You can do your own digging by jokingly saying, "Everyone thinks we're seeing each other, ha-ha. " If he casts a wide grin or seems into the idea, the coast is clear to start flirting and see what happens.AVOID GETTING BUSTEDOnce you've gotten together (we know you'll get this thing moving), keep that info on the DL.He wants to feel that you see what is special about him, and not just how he is the opposite of everybody else you’ve dated. Studies show that office romance is on the rise, and over 80 percent of people surveyed for one study say that would probably date a coworker. While some of them might blossom, office romances can be a little shaky, mainly because if things go sour, you're going to have to see this guy every day from 9am to 5pm—awkward.
Your guy will feel guilty that your kids have to scram when he’s around, and you’ll feel guilty about hiding your pride and joy!