Dating someone who is separated
That’s energy and space that he can’t and won’t channel into you in positive ways. He doesn’t consistently spend time with his children.
You also end up keeping company with someone who is aloof, moody, defensive and/or crabby. If your separated man isn’t seeing much of his kids, this should be seen as a warning, not a “bonus” (cause it’s more time spent with you, right? One reason he’s not parenting could be because he and his wife are disagreeing over child custody and access.
"I don’t think separation equals divorce," says Chapman.In fact, I pity any man who dated me when I was separated; I was messed up, and didn’t even know it!I also hasten to add that not separated man is disastrous to date – and should be considered as a unique individual."What happened after the seminar could fill a book!We confessed the ways we had failed one another and sought forgiveness.
And there’s a strong chance your separated man has a long way to go.